Hello, I just wanted to say do not give up, what ever you do that is the very worst thing, when you give up, its done. Kinda like if your leaning to swim, because if you don't you could drown, and you keep trying and you can't seem to get it how to stay afloat and to swim. So you stop trying to learn no biggie you will survive, not neccerly, if your at a lake and you happen to go to far, basicly you will drown if no one is arouund to help you out. All because you gave up..
I know is easy to lose hope, sometimes easier to lose it, then to keep it. I think there is a discussion group on feeling hopeless, I went there because I have learned to try and fight that emotion. But my friend, there are good people, and good organizations, you did the right thing coming here, Ive been here a couple of weeks I have a huge need, almost seems impossible, but since coming to this sight, I found away while Im praying and hoping for my miracle as are so many here, The best way to start feeling better, even before you have the answer to your debt problems, is by helping someone, don't money me either, you have a voice, you have a heart. Debt is a bummer I shared about somewhere, I was in debt quite a few years ago, I just thought tht was it bad credit for ever even if i became a responsible person... But actually that can change, and there are statue of limitations, in all of the states when your debt is kind of reconciled. Im not saying to do that, certainly we all feel better when we are doing are best to live rightly
All I know is you will be on your feet, again, some of the things in life I have come thru, espially the debt stuff. I leaned alot, was not the most fun lessons I've had bud the were life giving, you acturally learn to like your self better, I sincerely hope you find the grant links that will help you, there are quite a few refernces just keep looking. Just wanted you to know people in here truly care, in the two weeks since I since came for my problem, I have been encouraged, sent links that could help, they didnt but they could someone. sent prayers which I love. There is just something that happens when you reach out to help a complete stanger, just becaue you don't want to see them hurting, I was pretty despondant when I came here, and I still have my moments, but it has been life changing... I really really encourage to read thu some of the other peoples problem/ issues. then take another step. write them, tell them you care then they are having a hard time.. just that simple sentence, can be life to some people... We are of value.. no matter how poor we are, or what medidcal needs we have, we are valuable. we still count. Any enough of me.. just wanted to say hi, and don't give up, and reach out, and let me know how you felt after encouraging a complete stranger.... :) :)
God bless you in all you need, Kat